Archivos mensuales: febrero 2013


The artist

George Valentin: Look at what you’ve become. You’ve become proud! You’ve become stupid!

Vulnerabilidad e internet

Why does this matter? It matters to me because I think we’re setting ourselves up for trouble — trouble certainly in how we relate to each other, but also trouble in how we relate to ourselves and our capacity for self-reflection. We’re getting used to a new way of being alone together. People want to […]

La trampa de la memoria

(…)All of us “transfer” experiences to some extent, and at times we are not sure whether an experience was something we were told or read about, even dreamed about, or something that actually happened to us. (…) It is startling to realize that some of our most cherished memories may never have happened—or may have […]

One heart from breaking

If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If I can ease one life the aching, Or cool one pain, Or help one fainting robin, Unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain. Emily Dickinson.


There are two kinds of pity. One, the weak-minded, sentimental sort, is really just the heart’s impatience to rid itself as quickly as possible of the painful experience of being moved by another person’s suffering. It is not the case of real sympathy, of feeling with the sufferer, but a way of defending yourself against […]

Human and humiliation

I approach this vast subject from a limited angle- the angle of fatigue. I am tired, as any human must be, after a life spent avoiding humiliation and yet standing near its flame, enjoying the sparks, the heat, the paradoxical illumination. Humiliation, Wayne Koestenbaum.